BE REAL.BE KIND.OR BE GONE.

No threats or violence of any kind.

No harassment or hate based on identity — race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, or anything else someone is.

No predatory behavior: grooming, soliciting minors, or engaging with anyone you have reason to believe is under 18. We remove and report violations.

No non-consensual content, including unsolicited sexually explicit images or content depicting real people without consent.

Be yourself: no catfishing, no impersonation, no AI-generated photos passing as real, no other people's photos. One account per person.

Accurate dealbreaker answers. The filter only works if both sides are honest — lying to defeat it is grounds for permanent ban.

No money requests: no gift cards, investment pitches, MLM recruitment, fundraising, or sex-work solicitation. No off-platform schemes to evade safety controls.

Respect others' privacy: don't share phone numbers, addresses, workplaces, or photos of other people, and don't screenshot conversations or profiles without consent.

Report: every match card has a Report option. Use it for anyone you suspect is under 18, threats, harassment, scam attempts, fake or impersonated profiles, unsolicited explicit messages — anything that violates these guidelines.

Block: one-way and immediate. The blocked person can't message you, see your profile, or be re-matched with you. A report is never required to block.

Unmatch: removes a match without reporting — for when nothing's wrong but you'd rather not continue.

Crisis: if you or someone you've matched with is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services — US: 911; 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). Outside the US or traveling: findahelpline.com. Also in-app under Settings → Safety.

Reports are reviewed by trained human moderators; we respond within 24 hours during business hours.

Outcomes scale with severity: a warning, temporary suspension, content removal, permanent ban, and — where warranted — referral to law enforcement.

Severe violations (threats, predatory behavior, fraud) are actioned without notice. Otherwise we'll typically warn first and escalate on repeat.

We don't pre-screen messages, but we may use automated systems to detect specific high-risk patterns (e.g., child-safety hashes per NCMEC). A human reviews every detection before any account action.