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Write your dealbreakers
Pick from 80+ categories — kids, faith, distance, politics, sobriety, whatever matters. Hard nos, soft nos, must-haves.
Wants kidsSame citySmoker — hard noPracticing CatholicNo emotional unavailability
ALL CLEAR
You shouldn’t spend three dates finding out it was never going to work. All Clear catches the dealbreakers before you ever match — the kids thing, the distance, the stuff you wish you’d known first. Just the green light.
You set the rules. We run the screen. Profiles only reach your queue once every dealbreaker has cleared — and we tell you which ones.
Pick from 80+ categories — kids, faith, distance, politics, sobriety, whatever matters. Hard nos, soft nos, must-haves.
Every candidate answers your questions privately. We check their answers against your rules — and yours against theirs — and only show you the ones who pass.
Cleared profiles arrive stamped. You already know you’re aligned — so the only thing left is chemistry.
For every dealbreaker you set, we show you how many more people you’d be All Clear to date if you let it go — or just loosened it a notch. No other app tells you what’s actually costing you matches. Maybe it’s not a dealbreaker after all.
Illustrative — your real numbers come from your area
Every profile arrives with a clearance receipt — what we checked, what cleared, and what your match told us when they cleared it.
The hardest conversations — kids, faith, sobriety, where you’ll live, what you won’t tolerate — they happen before you meet. Quietly, in the background, between people who haven’t met yet.
When you finally see a profile, it’s already aligned. Now you can spend that first date on the part that actually matters.
Every other app puts the work on you. We flip it: you tell us what you won’t accept, once, and we make sure you never see it again.
Anything you want it to. Common ones: kids (have / want / never), faith intensity, sobriety, monogamy, marriage timeline, distance, smoking, politics, finances. You can also write your own — “must be kind to service staff” style rules included.
Each member answers their interview privately during onboarding. Before anyone is introduced, we check both sides’ answers against each other’s rules — your dealbreakers against their answers, theirs against yours. Answers are on the record: misrepresenting yourself breaks our community guidelines and can get a profile removed.
No. Your filter is private. They only ever see the questions we ask them — never that you’re the one who set the rule. Standards stay on your side of the wall.
That’s a feature. We’d rather you get one match a month that’s actually aligned than 40 a week you’ll never reply to. If you want more volume, you can loosen any rule from “hard no” to “soft preference” — we’ll show what each change unlocks.
People who’ve done the swipe carousel and are done with it — typically 25–45, who know what they want and would rather wait for it than scroll for it. Anyone can create an account and take the interview; the bar isn’t looks, it’s clarity about what you’re looking for.
Set your dealbreakers in 6 minutes. Get cleared matches as soon as they pass.
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