Write your dealbreakers
One interview, about 20 topics — kids, faith, money, distance, smoking, politics — the things that actually end relationships. Then add the dealbreakers we didn't ask.
You shouldn’t spend three dates finding out it was never going to work. All Clear catches the dealbreakers before you ever match — the kids thing, the distance, the stuff you wish you’d known first. Just the green light.
You set the rules. We do the asking. You only see someone once every dealbreaker has cleared — theirs and yours — and we tell you which ones.
One interview, about 20 topics — kids, faith, money, distance, smoking, politics — the things that actually end relationships. Then add the dealbreakers we didn't ask.
Everyone answers the same interview privately. We check their answers against your rules — and yours against theirs — and only show you the ones who clear both ways.
Cleared profiles arrive stamped. You already know you’re aligned — so the only thing left is chemistry.
For every dealbreaker you set, we show you how many more people you’d be All Clear to date if you let it go — or just loosened it a notch. No other app tells you what’s actually costing you matches. Maybe it’s not a dealbreaker after all.
Illustrative — your real numbers come from your area
Every profile arrives with a clearance receipt — what we checked, what cleared, and what your match told us when they cleared it.
The hardest conversations — kids, faith, sobriety, where you’ll live, what you won’t tolerate — they happen before you meet. Quietly, in the background, between people who haven’t met yet.
When you finally see a profile, it’s already aligned. Now you can spend that first date on the part that actually matters.
Every other app puts the work on you. We flip it: you tell us what you won’t accept, once, and we make sure you never see it again.
The interview covers about 20 topics — the ones that actually end relationships: what you’re looking for, monogamy or open, kids (whether you want them, have them, or would date someone who does), smoking and vaping, drinking, drugs, faith and whether children would be raised in it, politics, money and debt, work, family, pets and allergies, distance, and your age and height preferences. You can also write your own — “must be kind to service staff” style rules included.
Everyone answers the same interview privately, and those answers are commitments, not bio text. Before anyone is introduced, we check both sides’ answers against each other’s rules — your dealbreakers against their answers, theirs against yours. If anyone changes an answer, or adds a new dealbreaker, every existing match re-checks automatically. And if a date wasn’t what their answers said, you can tell us privately, right from the match — we never say who told us. Their answers get re-confirmed, and repeated dishonesty is reviewed by a person, never an algorithm.
No. Your filter is private. They only ever see the questions we ask them — never that you’re the one who set the rule. Standards stay on your side of the wall.
That’s a feature. We’d rather you get one match a month that’s actually aligned than 40 a week you’ll never reply to. If you want more volume, you can loosen any rule from “hard no” to “soft preference” — we’ll show what each change unlocks.
Taking the interview and seeing your matches is free. You pay when you want to start a conversation — plans are on the pricing page, no surprises.
People who’ve done the swipe carousel and are done with it — typically 25–45, who know what they want and would rather wait for it than scroll for it. Anyone can create an account and take the interview; the bar isn’t looks, it’s clarity about what you’re looking for.
The interview is free, and so is seeing your matches. You pay only when you’re ready to start a conversation.
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